Can I ask do you have similar feelings/anxieties about EJ in your waking life or are they just confined to your dreams? Also the subconscious mind is very childlike and will often assume that bad experiences will be repeated until proved otherwise - so you can either be a victim of your subconscious fears or face up to them and see what happens, dreams can help sometimes but they can also mess us around a bit too; they work a bit like a computer program, expecting the same results all the time until new data (experience) is added, so sometimes you have to take charge and proactively add the data yourself by going ahead and doing some of the things your dreams are telling you to worry about, unless of course you really know you shouldn't be doing stuff in waking life (like beating people up or something) and your dreams are telling you to stop – but that’s something different entirely.