Also - in regards to the band the member gone solo in real life is shy and reserved as is the singer of the band - the one member of the band I am good friends with was hardly in the dream at all neither was the other shy band member who I guess I'm most drawn towards. Infact the one who went solo and took me under his wing was the one I've had the least to do with - although he was very nice when I spoke to him after the show on Sat.