In the fable Goldie Locks and the Three Bears, the girl invades the den of a family. She did not perceive any dangers either. She finds the stuff of the baby bear "just right."

Are you familar with this tale and does this resonate with you? The three girls and three bears makes me think of this classic story. Since you are the middle sibling, perhaps you feel closest to your youngest sibling. Is this sibling someone you can talk to? Confide in?

I hope your friendship is on the mend. You may harbor some jealosy toward her and your friend may have sensed it and it lead to the fight. This could also be what the dream is about--you (Goldie Locks) are looking for stuff that you dont' have and you prefer what the baby bear (your friend or youngest sibling) has.