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last night i had two dreams and both of them featured my baby's father. The first dream had his best friend, and his girlfriend in it also. We (me,babys dad, best bro and girlfriend, were walking around trying to do something and we went to a bar or something and there was this guy there that my babys daddy seemed to be afraid of. So we all left right away but this guy started chasing us down the street. The street itself was scary, and then i turned around, he had this huge gun and started shooting at us. Everyone but me got hit, and i kept running, but it seemed like i couldnt run fast enough. I hid in someones garage in a back lane, and there was a little hole in the wall where this guy stuck his gun in. i grabbed it and killed him! i was so scared that i killed him so i ran away. I dont remember much after that but i remember the cops were on my side..

The second dream was really scary to me when i woke up. It also made me sad. Upon waking up, i was angry, i could feel the anger running thru me.
I only remember bits and pieces but it is still very vivid in my mind. So it started with this chick that i see all the time in my neighbourhood, i dont know her, but i dont really like her because she stares at me alot and i think she finds my baby's daddy attractive. Anyways, all i remember is that she was dating or going to see my ex, and i caught her and like kidnapped her. I was being so mean to her, hitting punching and pinching her. For some reason we ended up on the bus, and then i called my ex on her cell phone. He answered quickly and started saying how much he liked her and wanted her. I started laughfing and told him it was me. We ended up at his place where i was arguing with him. He started counting this big stack of money, which i kept grabbing right from his hands, and put in my back pocket. I started grabbing thins like a laptop and some clothes and put them in a bag. I attempted to leave but my baby was there all of a sudden and i was struggling to get her snowsuit on- but it was like summer outside. I dont remember much after that but i am so disturbed by this dream i need HELP. thanks to anyone wh answers.

Hi and Welcome.

I sense a lot of pent-up anger in you. But the fact that you are getting your frustrations out in the dream is a good sign--better than kicking someone's butt for real.

Are you angry at the father of your child in reality? Does he possess the maturity for fatherhood? Judging from your dreams, my guess is no. Does he fool around a lot with other women? You may have to be both mommy and daddy in that case.

If the anger is not toward him in reality, than perhaps it's geared toward someone else who has some control over your life or your baby's?