Ok so this week i was staying with my boyfriend and his bestfriend (jeff) and his new wife on a mini vacation. durring the first night of the vacation i went to bed with my boyfriend and dreamed about his bestfriend jeff.
My dream: I was in the common TV room/living room in the house we were staying in....when Jeff came and just bent me over to have sex with me. I went along with the act happily as if it was something i wanted to happen for a long time...but i reminded him that my boyfriend and his wife were in the other room and i did not want to mess things up between us. He said...."what they dont know wont hurt them...it will just be our secret."
That is all i remember of the dream but the rest of the vacation i felt strange around Jeff as if that had actually happend.
Why would i dream that i was with my boyfriends best friend?

after that the dream switched to the next day....and it turned out that it was just a dream....but i was still dreaming. I was so upset about the dream that i confessed to the wife that i had had the dream about her husband and i didnt know what it meant. Surprisingly she was consoling me say "oh poor angela....I am so sorry that you had that dream."
That was when i woke up for real.....why would she have said sorry about my dream? why would she feel bad for me. I did not end up telling anyone about this dream.... i feel like they would get the wrong idea. I do not actually want that to happen. I dont want to cheat on my boyfriend...i love him very much.

These kinds of dreams are actually very common, lots of people have them. And, like you say, it doesn't mean you really want to sleep with him, not all dreams are wish fulfillment. I guess the wife was consoling you because she knew how awkward you would feel when you woke up. Often different people in your dreams represent different aspects of yourself, so it could be that part of Jeff's personality might appeal to you, that you wish you could be a bit like that - whatever that is - then the wife might be part of your mind apologizing for trying showing you this in such a blatant, graphic way.

I dont think the person in the dream is as significant as how you felt in the dream. It could mean you want more excitement and affection in your own relationship. It could also mean that you are not getting something you need, and maybe could cause you to look elsewhere at some time. Then again, it could mean that you just were horny when you went to sleep...lol, hey it happens