I have been having nightmares several times a week since my husband left for Iraq. They arent about him, but about me. They are different every time. Different person, different situation, different scenerio altogether. The one thing that links every one of them are the feelings that I have, and the end result. I dream that I cheat on my husband. Not a one night stand thing. As if I fell for two people. I try my hardest to stay away from them, but they keep coming back and almost forcing me to be with them. I wake up numerous times a night with HORRIBLE nightsweats. I have had to change my sheets and shower.

I know why they are happening, but I can't make them stop. The are a DIRECT reflection of what happened with my ex during his deployment. This is killing me. I was a different person then. Those awful things arent going to happen this time. I cannot deal with this for another 12 months while he is gone. Anyone have any advice??

Can you speak to a counselor so you can get things off your chest?