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Hey guys, I'm new to this forum, I hope I'll have a pleasant stay!

Alright I've got two dreams, the first one a weird sequence.

My girlfriend and I have been having weird dreams that seem to fit together. Taking a newborn to my parents' house, proposing on the beach, being stopped by her father at the church on our wedding day and getting there late, among other things.

The weird part is within the last few weeks we both had the same dream, and each time we have it it gets more and more detailed. It starts off with her in labor with our second child, and I'm there by her bed holding her hand. Suddenly, she goes limp and the pulse goes to the same tone. Doctors push me away as more run in, and I'm there watching them try to revive her but nothign works. Then, they let me see her, and I stand over her bed crying and holding her, and my parents come in with our last child to see how I'm holding up and to see her.

I think/hope its our subconscious unraveling, but she says that it may be visions of us in previous lives or even the future since we both saw the same images, not a coincidental dream only one of us has but happens to connect. Its been worrying us, her moreso (for good reason) and I would like someone opinion on this dream and how we both had the same one, and plus how all of these dreams tie together. What do they mean? Are they visions of the past or future, or our brains unraveling? Any help is welcomed.

Now a weird one I haven't brought up to her. Its has me in a stall at band camp or bathroom or something and it has no door, and as I'm getting redressed from going to the bathroom or changing clothes or something her friends walk by (but strangely enough, my girlfriend isn't there). I see one of her friends, and I lean over to kiss her and she returns it, even though I'm not fully dressed .

I'm worried what this is telling me, since I'm happy with my current girlfriend, this girl in the dream has a boyfriend, and this is the second time this week I've dreamt of her and kissing her. What does this mean?

Any help on both of these is welcomed, it'll help my girlfriend and me (me twofold ) to sleep better at night. Thanks!

I know this is bumping, but can anyone help me? Its been bothering me a while, and not being able to discuss these is really hard (especilaly the last one, thats the one I can't even tell my girlfriend about). Any and all help is appreciated!