Hey everyone im new here, just wondering if someone could help me.

I keep dreaming that my partner will leave me for somebody else, which might seem unimportant but i wake up feeling upset and crying. The dream isnt always exactly the same but generally that he leaves me for somebody else. We have been together for 5 years and i have no reason whatsoever to think he is going to run away with someone else?! I'll tell you all about the dream i had last night as i still remember most of it.

Chris (my partner) told me one day that he wanted us to finish our relationship i was living with him (as i am now) and he had met someone else this someone else was moving in with him in 1 week. So i had one week (in my eyes) to convince him not to leave me, we had such a good time that week together and on the last night we made love it was really nice and we really enjoyed it but the day after came and the girl arrived with her things ready to move in. She ran in and gave him a big cuddle and kiss in front of me which really broke my heart. I left, i went to work as normal but everywhere i went i kept seeing him. I was trying to move on but got the feeling he was following me because he still loved me. He hurt hiself one of the times i saw him and went over to go and see if he was ok and give him a hug (like i would if we'd have been together) but his new girlfriend was there i could tell he wanted to hug me too but we couldnt.... then i woke up and immediatley started crying.

Luckily he understands that i have bad dreams sometimes and comforts me when i wake up. But im confused why do i keep dreaming similar things? and is there a meaning behind them? What do they mean? Hope somebody can help me, thanks very much for reading.

Did you just start having these dreams recently? Perhaps there is something going on in your life that is making you feel insecure, not about your relationship with Chris, but about something else in your life. What was the other girl like? Was there anything about her that might make you envious?

Does the 1 week timeframe mean anything to you?

i have dreamt these dreams for the past i'd say 12 months, i am slighly insecure about myself but always have been. I cant say there is anything going on in my life that is different that should be making me dream these things at all? I'll have to have a good hard think about that. I did know the girl that was in the dream, i'm not envious of anything shes is or has got that im aware of, it's not always the same girl just in this particular one.

I apologise but what is the 1 week time frame?

Thanks ever so much
Leah

In the dream, he said that another girl was moving in with him in one week. I was wondering if "one week" meant something to you. For example, if you were expecting something to happen a week after the dream or if something happened to you a week ago or if something that happened to you took a week to happen, etc.