Ok here's the thing. My best friend, who was my g/f, we broke up about 3 weeks ago.

we've been in a long distance relationship for a while, almost 5 years, I met her a year ago and spent 2 weeks with her. she began mising me like crazy then stated feeling like her feelings weren't there any more.

her freind tells me she's not over me, and is still attached. and my best freind also called me up one afternoon and told me she's been having repetative dreams about her coming to visit me and us getting back together again after spending time together, she told me her dreams felt so real.

noe for me, I had a dream about her last night. I dreamed she was here with me and we were getting close romantically. my step mom made a big deal out of it, so we went down the the docks to eat at a reasturant. after dinner we at out and watched the stars.

we looked at each other and made out, it felt so real to me.

then after words though a van pulled up, like one of thsoe polive investigation vans, and three guys came out. they all looked alike, all had a athelitc build and military style hair cuts. they were also masochists. they did something to her for a brief moment, I fought them off and carried her away and then she was in the hosptial, and she became masochist.

what does any of this mean?

How do you know that the friend is telling the truth about your ex- g/f's dreams? Could she have an ulterior motive to make you thing that your ex-g/f wants to get back together with you?


I'm not sure what you mean by masochists? Is that the correct word for the people you are trying to describe?

A masochist is someone who gets sexual pleasure from having other people hurt them. Is that what you mean?

nonono see

my -best freind- now, IS my -ex girl friend-

my ex told me about her repeatative and vivid dreams about us getting back together in the summer time after she got the gut to come and vist "her words not mine"

now HER freind, told me she still isn't over me and is still attached, even though her feeling have changed.

and I do mean that word as in someone who enjoys pain, I didn't know if meant a sexual desire for pain

I would guess that your dream reflects a worry that if the two of you get back together in a romantic/sexual way, one or both of you will experience pain. The dream could be warning you that getting together again might not be such a good idea.