okai so can someone help me please!

i have had 2 dreams this week of my boyfriend of 2 yrs!.. so the first one was we were at dinner and having a nice conversation and i asked him if he was happy with our relationship. he stayed silent and looked down. i woke up never getting his answer. but the fact he stayed quiet made me sad.

the second dream i have no idea what happened but we were arguing. i dont exactly remember what we were arguing about but out of no where he yells and me to shut up. (my boyfriend would never yell at me or tell me to shut up
) and storms off and hits the club. i am texting him if he is coming back and he answers no. then i text him well i guess clubbing is more important than fixing us and he texted back anything is better than u. and i woke up.

my boy friend would not do anything like that to me. my boyfriend finds my dreams entertaining and laughs at what a douche he is in my dreams. but i cant figure out y he treats me so hirrble in my dreams ad idk what they mean.. someone help me figure it out.. thank you!

Your unconscious could just be thinking of possiblities of how your boyfriend could be - what it would be like if you were going out with someone who is not very nice, like he is in the dream.

Or you could be unconsciously worried that one day he will change and become like the dream boyfriend.

Have you had past relationships with people who treated you like your boyfriend in the dream? That could make you feel insecure about your current boyfriend's behavior.

umm actuallly i had one bf that did try to be the dominant one and did try to control me but i ddint stand for it which is y he is an ex. my current one is so respectful and is such a gentleman even when i try to pay for dinner he gets mad. but no one in particular has treated me like how my bf treated me in my dream because i wouldnt stand for it =]

I think part of your unconscious mixes your current boyfriend up with your ex.

I think part of your unconscious might think that all boyfriends are people who try to control you because of how your ex treated you.

Or you might be worried (unconsciously) that your current boyfriend will start acting like your ex.