A few weeks ago I got back from a road trip. I spent a whole month travelling across America. The idea of the trip was to find myself, and to discover my destiny in life. When I left, I had no intentions on returning. I spent the entire time looking for signs and opportunities. Nothing came. After 4 weeks on the road, I decide to go back home without a clue as to what I should do with my life.

I got a hotel room on the last night of the trip before I returned home, and this was the dream I had that night:

I was at a local bar with some friends and I ran into someone I knew from high school. We weren't great friends in high school. We hardly ever talked, but we knew of each other. I guess we knew of each other through other people. I always thought she was beautiful, but I didn't know much about her. Her and I get to talking in the dream. We spent the entire night asking the most random questions back and forth getting to know each other. We were being playful and flirty. It was fun, cute, and wonderful to actually meet her. In the dream, we had so much in common. I felt like I was meeting my soulmate. It felt so real and pure. And I truely believe right now, that I should follow that dream. In the dream we set up a time to meet again.I woke up after some time of talking with her. After that dream, I can see myself with her.

What does this dream mean? And is there any significance that I had it when I was on a trip trying to discover my destiny? Is she my destiny? And should I tell her about the dream?

I think the dream means that you have been unconsciously thinking about the type of person you would be happy with, and been wondering about the possibility of it being her.

I don't think you can know if she is your destiny until you spend some time with her in real life and see if you both are really compatible. The person you dreamed about was a fantasy, she wasn't the woman that you know in real life.


I don't think you should tell her about the dream since it makes you seem kind of like a stalker.

I know that if a man I didn't know very well told me that he had a dream that told him I was his destiny it would make me very uncomfortable.

Why not try to develop a relationship with her slowly and see what happens. If things go well after a while, and you both know that you are meant to be together, you can tell her about the dream then.