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Old 08-30-2010, 10:40 AM
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sorry, just reposting in here because i put it in the wrong place.

Hello everyone, I'm new here. I'm very interested in dream interpretations but I had a dream last night that I'd look some thoughts on. Okay...

I was taking my daughter to football and there I saw dan with his son Josh. We were meeting later with his gf and my bf for fish and chips but then were were there outside a chip shop eating fish and chips. I cannot remember what he was talking about but I started saying how i don't think Stephen wants us to move down and how he hasn't bothered. I offered to pick up Josh seeing as we are all meeting up later.

Next I am home playing with my children- 2 daughters (1 of them is the one who's at football- 6 year old) and 1 son. I look at my clock and it's 5.35. I franctically run round as I am late picking the kids up from football. My daughter doesn't want to come- she's 6, so i leave her home and tell her not to go near the door, answer i or answer the telephone. So I am rushing with my son (don't know where my youngest daughter went) and my sister calls. I say I have to go as i'm running really late.

A blue vw van pulls up aside and offers a lift which I take. They take a wrong tun and i'm calmly panicking thinking about jumping out but ten we are already there in a dark carpark. They take my son away. i dont even think i'm screaming like scared but I'm upset! they cut off my head and i think chop me into pieces although i didnt see this it was a feeling. I'm not scared though, just watching.

Next minute I am having movies and spending time with my bf Stephen. I know I'm dead (ghost) but he doesn't!

He then finds out I'm dead but isn't upset, he just is thinking "I thought so, it was weird being around her then." I'm not there any more.



Okay so what's going on in my life. My bf Stephen, I and our children moved away and he moved back as he didn't like it here. I've been in limbo, we've still been together but now I've decided I will move back. (My children and I have been/are still living where we moved to)

My son daniel (2) has a different father although Stephen is his dad as has been there since I was pregnant. His father has never seen him. He lives where we are going to move back. Maybe my dream is fears that he is going to be taken away? My girls are Stephens.

Dan is Stephens work friend who I haven't spoke to or even hung around ever. I think he is just in it for me to say my feelings.

My bf has barely made an effort to get us moved. I think he doesn't want us to and I do have insecurities about this.

the 6 year old is the same daughter... the one who goes to football, the one I'm playing with and the one I leave at home when I go to collect her from football.

Am I leaving (including leaving my daughter)? is it the end of a relationship? Where did my other daughter go (shes 2)?

is it hidden meanings?

Do you think dreams are feeling or things to come?

Thanks so much, Melanie
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:39 PM
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I think that the dream has to do with your feelings about the whole situation.

I agree that Dan is in the dream as someone for you to express your feelings to.

Your rushing around to get your daughter could have to do with your feeling that you are doing all the work to get the moving done while Stephen, your boyfriend isn't helping.

The people in the van taking your son away could have to do with your fears about what could happen if he is closer to his biological father. Maybe you're not afraid that his biological father will literally take him away, but that he and your son may develop a close relationship and leave ou out.

Stephen not caring when he finds out that you're a ghost could mean that you feel that he doesn't care about how things are affecting you. A ghost doesn't have needs - food, water, air, etc. - so you might think that Stephen doesn't care about your needs now.
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