why everytime i see or hear about my ex boyfriend i have dreames about us getting back together . when i dream of him in my dream i am happy that he is around. in the dream everyone want us together but i cant cause im married. also in life i am married with kids. what is the dreams telling me i reather be with my ex or what? help i have dreams like this alot. we are both married with our own family. why do i dream of him

Your dream is probably just a way of you thinking about what it would be like if you were with your ex rather than your husband. It's just your unconscious thinking about different possibilities. It doesn't necessarily mean that you would rather be with your ex. Dreaming is a safe way to think about "what might have been" without having to actually change anything in waking life. In your dream, you can also filter things - you can dream about the good parts of your relationship with your ex and forget about the bad things. (There must have been a reason why you broke up in the first place.)

In waking life, are you happy with your marriage? Do you tend to have these dreams at particular times, like after you've had a fight with or are upset with your husband?