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Old 03-08-2011, 12:18 PM
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So I recently went to break up. My boyfriend left me in valentines day. It has been really hard for me to get over him.
Even so the day that he broke up with him the night before I had a dream that involved him.

I was at my parents room and the window has a view to the garden. I started looking outside and there was a few
group of guys all dressed up in tuxedos. There was my boyfriend. The next thing I noticed was that I was about to shower
so I was completely naked. He looked up and kept his eyes locked in mine for a long time. Then
he kept on doing what he was doing and I went to the shower to finish showering. Once I finished I was suddenly somewhere else
a place where they leave the trucks loaded and there he was. But there was two of him and I followed them. I lost one but I reached
the other one just in time. We both got into this car and we were heading to my house. In the car he just looked at me and said nothin
so I started telling him how much I missed him and loved him and he just stared and I started crying. He reached out to hug me and
said something about it all being a job and I woke up.

Help me please. I thought this was a sign that everything would end. I'm so confused and heartbroken!
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Old 03-09-2011, 09:34 AM
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You could have suspected before you had the dream that something was going wrong with your relationship, and this showed up in the dream.

The group of guys in tuxedos could represent represent the choices of guys you could be with, or different aspects of your boyfriend's personality. Tuxedos make me think of a wedding, so you could have been thinking about your future and what it would be like with, or without, your boyfriend and how you would be better off.

Being naked makes me think of looking at your inner self and what you really want in life. It also has to do with feeling vulnerable. A shower could have to do with cleansing - getting rid of the negative things in your life and starting fresh.

The two versions of your boyfriend could be the real boyfriend (with all his flaws) and the boyfriend that you wished that he could have been.

The part about him saying it was all a job could mean that you were worried that he was behaving in certain ways to please you but wasn't really being hmself, or maybe you weren't able to be yourself when you were with him.
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Old 03-09-2011, 10:45 AM
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Consciously I know I didn't suspect but perhaps unconsciously I did.
I must agree in the two versions, one was lovely the other was crueler.
As far as the tuxedos it was some sort of meeting and so they were dressed-up,
I can tell you that your analysis about it is great and that could be what
I really intended to think about. I'm afraid it was him who was not being hiself.

Thank you very much for the help!
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