I need someone to help me out with this one but first let me throw this out there, my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years, and our trust issues are pretty good, although i do admit i am a bit jealous, not crazy jealous and he is aswell, like any other couple obviously. We both are really happy together so far and we plan on being together forever....so, on to the dream: I have been having this dream for about less than a year now, it changes everytime i dream it, either hes cheating on me or im cheating on him or like last night, we both were cheating on each other! We argued alot and alot of nasty things were said to each other, he brought up, for example, on my dream last night a girl he used to date before we both started going out, he said im gonna go see her and have sex with her, which really hurt me so i yelled back that i was going to go see an old "friend" of mine too if he was going to do that...i woke up crying like i usually do when i have these dreams because i just cant imagine my boyfriend doing that in real life. He gets upset when i mention these dreams and tells me "what the heck babe?! why are you dreaming about these things?!" I mentioned these dreams to someone and what that person told me was "maybe its gods way of telling you that you guys need to get married, you guys are sleeping together and not married yet"....lol now hes a very religious person and i appreciated his input but i dont know, it just seems like theres much more to it than that.

Are you worried that God doesn't approve of you sleeping together before marriage, or were you raised in a faith that says that? Could you be worried about "cheating" on God, your faith or your parents who raised you in your faith?

Is there anything that is causing you to feel angry or resentful toward your boyfriend, not having to do with cheating on you sexually but having to do with him being deceitful in other ways, not doing what you want, or feeling that he doesn't understand you?

It's possiblethat you are nervous about the idea of being together forever (normal), and your unconscious is trying to make you have bad thoughts about your relationship as a way of "tricking" you into not making a commitment.