Hey everyone,

Last night, I had a dream which started off with me on-board a bus being driven by my old college tutor and with various other people from past on-board. I was there with my current girlfriend.

As the dream went on, we found that the upstairs of the bus was essentially a house, with large amounts of people from my present and past enjoying a social gathering. The middle of the dream is a bit vague, but I remember talking to someone then suddenly realizing I hadn't seen my other half for a while, so I went looking for her. Eventually, I came across her in a bedroom with a number of guys (there was nothing sexual to my knowledge). When I went in to talk, she didn't say much to me, and when I tried to talk to her, the guys began ridiculing me (for what, I can't remember). At this point I flipped out and began shouting at the guys, only for my girlfriend to do nothing. Eventually, I left the room without her. I remember at this point others in the house talking about what had happened and me feeling like I had somehow been in the wrong.

Then fast-forward a bit more, and I was asking people what they thought about what happened and they all said I did nothing wrong and the other people were out of line. So I went back to the bedroom to speak with my girlfriend and when I went back I got the distinct feeling in the room that something sexual (maybe sexual isn't the right word... personal perhaps?) had been going on. She was lying in bed under the covers with 2 guys with many more in the room. They attempted to ridicule, I gave it back and then when I tried to speak with my girlfriend, she ignored me while still acknowledging that I was there.

What really shock me up about this dream is that I rarely (only a handful of times in my life) remember my dreams, and NEVER this vividly. I distinctly remember feeling extremely distressed and disturbed in the dream, and also quite powerless to do anything as my girlfriend was ignoring me. I woke up feeling horrible for the first hour or so. I'm just curious to know what's going on in my head for me to have a dream such as this.

About my relationship: We've been together for a year and a half, and are very much in love. We have had few problems throughout the relationship, and those that we have are usually dealt with quickly by getting it out in the open and talking about it; we rarely bottle things up to the point that they cause damage. Cheating has never crossed my mind and I'm certain it has never crossed hers, so I find it strange that with my personal view on the relationship I had this dream.

My first thought was that it was caused by a subconscious fear of being abandoned by her?

Anyway, if anyone can offer up their interpretation, I'd REALLY appreciate it.

*EDIT* Also note that I have no recollection of actually knowing the guys in the bedroom... they just seemed to be strangers but I distinctly remember them being younger than me *EDIT*

Just noticed that this should probably be in the Love, Dating and Relationships forum... sorry about that. Could a kind mod move it over for me?

Hi there. I'm new here but I read your dream and was reminded about one I had that was similar...one question for you, how did you feel within this dream? This could be interpreted as a insecurity dream,maybe your not aware in your concious state that this is bothering you,or could it be possible your dream is trying to make you aware of something that may happen? Mine did...

Yes, it could be an insecurity thing.

Another thing that I find interesting is that she is "cheating" on you with a group of guys, not just one guy.

Maybe you are worried that there is something in your relationship that is restricting either you are her - maybe are worried that you or she are devoting too much energy to the relationship so that it is restricting your development as individuals (the other men representing different parts of your personalities that have been neglected or underdeveloped).