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well,my parents,one of my sisters,my crush's parents,my crush's siblings,and I were at this weird house.I don't know where we were.Anyways,at that time we were all taking turns to take showers and for some weird reason I asked my parents if I could take a shower with my crush.Also for some weird reason,they said it was okay as long as I trusted him(How could I ask that and they say it's okay for me to do that!!!)..Me and my crush were 14 years old(the age I am now in reality..)!!!!It was so messed up!!I told my crush I wanted to take a shower with him and asked him if he wanted to.He said it was okay and didn't seem to mind.The weird thing was I didn't see much of the part where we were taking a shower together..I don't exactly remember or know what happened..I think we were just taking a shower acting normal as if we were just by ourselves,but I think we both were kinda feeling akward around each other.We didn't really get embarrassed and we didn't cover up our bodys.We just felt akward.We didn't say anything to each other,but I think we did look or smile at each other.Nothing else really happened.It was so weird.What does my dream mean??(I know you're probaly gonna say that my crush is very important to me since he was in my dream,but I don't understand everything that had happen.It doesn't make any sense!!)

please!Somebody help!!It's really bugging me that I don't know what my dream means..can someone tell what it means ??

I wonder if perhaps your subconscious is trying to tell you that having a crush on this guy is ok, using the metaphor of being clean, as in showered, to represent ok. Maybe you are having mixed, confusing thoughts about liking this person in this way and you want to be cleansed of any troubling thoughts connected with it?

This is what the dictionary says about showers, can you adapt any of that to the way you are feeling in your daily life?

well,that's true.I am a little bit confused on whether I should like him because(I'm in the 8th grade now and still like him now)he was in my 6th grade class and he moved to a different school after the 6th grade was over.Thanks for telling me what that means.I really appreciate it,but I still don't get the part where my parents were being so unstricted and unprotective.I don't get why they would just let me do that in my dream..What does that mean?

When you see other people in dreams they don't always represent themselves, but rather the feeling or position you associate with them. So your parents in your dreams might represent authority and, in your dream, the authority was also saying it was ok to do what you were doing. I think it was just another way of getting the same message across. Of course there may also be an element of wish-fulfilment, ie wishing that your parents would let you do what you want.

And I guess that goes the same with my crush telling me it was okay for me to take a shower with him.I don't think that would represent him in my dream,right??(I honestly don't know him that well,so I don't really know..)I mean in reality,I think he'd probaly freak out and say no if I asked him and so would my parents..and in reality I probaly wouldn't of even asked..It's kinda strange that I'd be asking that..Also,my parents aren't that strict..So,I think it does sort of represent them in a way(but they wouldn't of let me take a shower with him.I know that much..).And the other thing I wanted to mention is in the dream,they said I could as long as I trusted him.Maybe they were being a little protective,but not really.I mean of course I couldn't really trust him if I didn't know him that well,but I did anyways.That's so weird.Well,anyways,thank you for telling me what it means.I really appreciate it.I understand it much better.