First one is my sister's dream.

This starts out with her working and her friend brings in a snake to work, pulling it out of a bag and my sister freaks because she does not like snakes but even though the person apologizes does not take the snake away. Then one of her coworkers asks her to give him a ride home, this ride takes her close to the area where her ex boyfriend who had committed suicide this last December had lived with her. She goes the opposite way. She gets to the persons home that she is giving the ride to and goes into his house. When she comes back out she realizes her car is gone so goes and searches for it. As she is searching she sees three girls that are , the older one of the three is handicapped mentally and starts to talk to her. Then the middle girl, who has blond curly hair and an angelic face starts to talk to her, asking her what is wrong and she tells her that she can't find her car. The girl says it is six blocks down and she looks at her weird and says no I don't remember parking it that far, should be right here. She asks her if it is her new green car and she remembers thinking I thought it was gray but says yes to the girl and she says it is six blocks down. She looks at the little girl and asks her if she is an angel and the girl smiles and says yes. Then she says that she has 48 hours and she has to make the choice. Then she sees her dead boyfriend on a video and he is talking about why he decided to kill himself and what he was thinking at the time. The three girls come into the video and are playing in the background. Then she saw them in their bedroom and they were talking and the same blonde little girl said that she had a day and she had to make the choice. Then she woke up.

Now my dream:

I am in this house, not sure where it is because it is nothing I recognize. I am with my sister (Same one the other dream is from) and We have just cremated our mother and I go into the bathroom and start going through the things in there. My sister comes into the bathroom and looks at me, asking me what I am doing and I tell her I am going through the things. I ask her if she wants to come and help and she shakes her head no and tells me she does not want to deal with this and I tell her we have to. I wake up before I finish going through the things.

Now it happened at the same time roughly so I am not sure if the two are connected or not but we would like some help deciphering these.

Hi and Welcome.

In both dreams, I see elements of death, and making a choice (or responsibility).
Death in dreams means that a life change is occurring, one part of the life is gone, and a new one emerges. It could be a change in job or career, or even a relationship. Because your sister dreamed about a dead boyfriend, this could mean she has left an old relationship behind and is embarking on a new one. The car could represent life's journey and the path she is taking. I noticed the phrase "6 blocks down." Could this be a play on words? Perhaps your sister was referring to her late boyfriend that he was "6 feet down" as in buried. The three girls could represent a coping mechanism your sister is using to deal with the lose. I suggest your sister try to have a conversation with them in her mind to figure out what they wanted to convey to her. Ask your sister to ask them what her "choice" is about. What does she have to choose? And why?

In your dream, you are the one telling your sister to make a choice to deal with a death. Perhaps one of the girls your sister dreamed about represented you.

Let me know if I can be further assistance.

Actually that does make allot of sense. You see me and my sister in our lives have been able to see and talk to ghosts so she does talk to her dead boyfriend because she has not been willing to let go and now she has gotten incontact with her eldest childs dad and he is giving her hints that he wants to try again and she has never let go of all of her feelings for him.

Thank you for helping me out, makes allot of sense. The only thing I am confused about is the color of the car is different. I don't know what the color green is supposed to mean because my car is gray. and why after all this time I am winding back up at the apartment that we shared. Also I would like to know what the color red would mean because his shirt was red and stood out.

I assume you are talking about your sister's dream? She would be more qualified to answer the questions about the colors. Colors represent different things to people. I know how I would answer such questions if it was my dream, but the color red may mean something different to her than it would for me or you.

Actually that was her using my account to ask you that series of questions because she is not sure what they mean.

Green and gray both start with the letter G. Did you lose something of value that begins with G? Did the late boyfriend's name start with G?

As for red, what emotions did you experience when you saw it. Happy? Angry? Frightened? Sometimes colors invoke certain responses. For example, I recently had a dream that featured bright blue jackets. It was a pretty color, but my association with it was not too positive, because it put me back in the factory where we wore blue jackets (or smocks).

So, what did the red mean to you in the dream?

I will ask her, this is her sister but as for the G her dog Grady was put to sleep not too long before Cory (the boyfriend) died. I want to say it could not have been more then a year before he died so it could be that.