Hi all,

I had two dreams last night and they were a next to next dream. To me that means I had one dream that went right into another dream but were two total different dreams.

Here goes, I haven't seen my family in years, so anyway, my sister and cousin came to me and told me that my grandma needs to see me before she passes away, otherwise she won't die and needs to die because she is in poor health. They fight with me to come do it and I tell them no because. I feel if I go I am the one backing down here. They tell me that I was the favorite and she wants to see me. (That is true, I was my grandmother's favorite). I then tell them, that I can't do it because she betrayed me and my trust with believing them when I did nothing wrong. I went frantic and started weeping. Now all of a sudden goes into another dream.......

The next dream......

My mother in law and I are out doing whatever and she told me that she thinks that father in law's car is out back behind this building. She steps up on the concrete wall to look back behind the building and she falls, she fell so far down I could see her laying there down on her stomach, I started to freak out crying so much that everything started to blur. Then all of a sudden her head moved she went to go get up and brushed herself off then I looked at her from way above and it wasn't her. It was my grandmother and she told me, if you don't come down here with me I will be saddened to eternity. I freaked out. Now I am worrying about my mother in law because she is going in for surgery in a couple of weeks, just on her hand.

There was just too much going on in that dream.

Can anyone tell me what they think this dream is about?

Do you feel betrayed by your grandmother in reality?

Yes I feel very betrayed by her because she took my sisters side when my sister stole my identification to open bills up in my name. She was and still to this day is very manipulative and is a thief.

I feel betrayed with my whole family too, not just her.

I told my husband about the dream and he told me it was just a dream and not to worry about it. So maybe I am over reacting.

Actually what upset me more about the dream was my mother in law and not my Grandmother, believe it or not.

I care so much for my MIL I would do anything for her.

Maybe I will just let it go. It can't be too bad right?

Thanks

What may be happening is day residue. Your MIL may have said or done something that triggered a memory of your grandmother. Good or bad, that memory of her brought back the old pent up feelings of betrayal about your grandmother.

I sense a feeling of guilt too. You MIL commands you to go into the hole and then becomes your grandmother. You are struggling with your conscience, at least that is what I get from that scene. So the question is, do you feel obligated to your family, even though there is bad blood between you all?

OMG, you just opened up my eyes. That hit it hard. I think I know what I need to do. Something I have never done before. Wow, I am glad I got your advice.

Thanks,
Lookin

Glad I could help.