On Aug. 30 I dreamed this :

Ok I'll write this since its fresh in my memory. Don't quite know where I was but I was with 2 other people. One girl was trying to move some stands ya know where people sit down in events ? Some big something whatever like a big metal board was on top of it and when she tried to move/push it, this "thing" fell over. Right besides the stand were like some other stand with 2 men under it or something like a construction stand ? so the think on top of the stand falls like tips over and falls on the 2 men !!! I scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! in horror. one men was jus squashed and blood dripping a little bit, the 2nd men fell to the floor and got up. I know he was of dark color almost a black person cuz I know I remember almost calling him "Gregoryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy" who's Gregory ? well its a french singer here in Montreal but in the dream I KNOW it wasnt him but looked like him... so he just got up and was standing there. I think I tried to grab someone's cell to call 911. Then my alarm woke me up.

I swear, I dont know what those mean sometimes. I dream horrible things at times. LIke the night before, one of my dreams is that I was in a car and the road was blocked or something and I tried to back up. I get out of my car and I see tuns of people around and I go close, its like almost down a small mountain. I see police cars, ambulances, morgue etc... in the far I was a cut up head but the neck was like friggen long for some reason. Then I see a man coming towards it probably someone from Forensic or the morgue, just take the head by the hair and walking away with it...

Can someone explain why I dream that kind of dream ? Not scared by all means but geez.. can't I dream of something a bit happier ? lol

and last night i dreamed this one :

Ok, from what I remember, I was standing infront of one building (there were 3 lined up), the one further on the left, and the one on the far right collapsed and I think it was on fire !!!! it was about 5-6 story high but only the 1st 2 floors were "intact". It just collapsed like the Twin Towers did.

now today Aug. 3, I learned that 2 chat friends have recently passed, one from bone cancer and another one was killed in a fire.

Any thoughts ??

Hi and Welcome. Sorry to hear you're having such disturbing dreams.

First, nightmares that give us a jolt are manifestations of inner conflicts that have not consciously been resolved yet. Do you feel that things are figuratively collapsing around you? Are your family or personal relationships causing you disharmony? Is there threat or rumors of layoffs or closings were you work? Did a deal to buy a home fall through? If any of these things resonate, then facing them and coming up with solutions will help stop the nightmares.

Learning about the deaths of your chat buddies after the dreams is interesting. I think that we all have intuition that tells us something is wrong. I've had similar experiences. I dreamed that my grandmother died and then we get a call saying she had passed away. Same thing with a friend of a friend. I dreamed he had died and my friend called the next day to say this his friend had died.

Only thing that happened in what you have mentioned is chancing jobs. I was laid off on July 20th and started working again Aug. 27. I had the job not even a week after my lay off at my old job so i wasnt worried about placing somewhere else. I don't get where these dreams come from though. Relationship wise ? that is non existant ... being single has its advantages LOL

Strange how sometimes I can dream the scarriest of things, some I wouldnt even write about, some are even of a sexual nature. Ok hey i dont control what I dream about LOL

Something else is that I havent been consistently worked out in the last 8 weeks or a bit more and have gained 20 lbs but down to 17 now so Im taking things slow. I am taking a personal trainer this week to get me started again and gain back some muscles