Hi!

I had a dream which has me a bit freaked out ... I dreamt that I was pregnant, unmarried and upset. Not sure who the father of the child is. My mother is in the dream. My sense is that she supports me but I am upset about something and she is trying to tell me how I should do something but I am in no mood to listen and go to my room and cry and weep - "oh rahul (someone I am interested in), why am I going through this? Then I hear a friends voice - someone I have contemplated settling down with but decided against it. I think this is on the phone but don't recall having made the call and he's telling me something in his agonisingly "I can't imagine why you'd be upset about this" tone and then I wake up.

Would appreciate suggestions.

Cheers,
Pooja.

I think that your mind may be going over the advantages and disadvantages of not settling down with someone - what would happen if you got pregnant and were alone?

It does not mean that you didn't make the right decision - just that your unconscious mind will sometimes go over things over and over even after you've consciously made a rational decision. My guess is that there were disadvantages to settling down with this person that were more important than the possibility of you being a single parent.

Hey! thanks for your input. However, that explanation doesn't resonate though. On the other hand I'm not sure what does resonate either. The dream was rather disturbing. Maybe its some kind of premonition but no way of knowing whether it is or not until something happens. Time will tell.

Thanks once again.

Cheers,
Pooja.