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Old 09-07-2008, 03:53 PM
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Unhappy Ended engagement to marry his best friend

Ok so I had this wicked freaky dream last night. I am engaged to an amazing man and we are getting married in April. A lot of my gal pals think my fiance's best friend - and also the guy who will be his best man - has a major crush on me, something I think myself with the way he acts around me. He's a nice guy and we have a lot in common, but on my side there is no physical attraction or chemistry.

Last night I had a dream that I broke it off with my fiance and then started dating his best friend. The friend eventually asked me to marry him and when he proposed I was still wearing my engagement ring from my fiance. And then we were at the rehersal dinner and it was a big dinner dance and thats when I found out the friend had asked my fiance to be HIS best man at my wedding to him and so I had to dance with my fiance and it was just so weird. It completely freaked me out.

I can't figure out if this is just because the friend was on my mind last night (we had a little party here and a friend of mine said it was VERY obvious that the friend has a crush on me which kind of bothers me) or if it means I'm subconsciously having second thoughts about marrying my fiance or what!

Any help or suggestion on this would be great!
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Old 10-05-2008, 12:45 PM
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I think the dream was probably brought on by your friend talking about him.

As this guy has a crush on you, it is only natural for you to subconsciously think about the possiblity of you being with him instead of your fiance. That doesn't mean that in real life you don't want to be with your fiance.

I think the fact that everything in the dream is the opposite - your fiance is his best man in his wedding - shows that you are just trying to think of differnent possiblities, not that you want to act at them.

Maybe this dream is meant to make you think how lucky you are that you are marrying your fiance instead of his best friend.
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