sometimes you subconsciously pick up things that you normally don't notice, and dreams make something of those things, right? well anyway, in a dream i had, i dreamt that a girl in one of my classes liked me and i liked her too, but we never kissed, dated or anything. we were sitting in a park or something and we were together, but too shy to talk. sometime later, i'm in really bad/embarassing clothes. i didn't want her to see me in such bad clothes so i go to aeropostale to get some good clothes. when i get there there's an irish bar incorporated into it for some reason. i think i was with someone else at the time, but i can't remember. i do pick out some clothes. however, i start getting attacked and fend off assassins and a dragon, or something like that. the rest i can't remember.

the thing is, i never really noticed the girl in the dream before. she's cute, but i didn't like her. after i had this dream i really started to wonder why i had it. i've only had a dream about someone i liked once before long ago, and in that dream i was arguing with the girl i liked. so i'm thinking that i either picked up signals that she liked me, or that i want her to like me for some reason. (i do want to honestly like a girl and have a girlfriend, but i can't seem to find one that i really do like.)

so, help, anyone?

The part where you are looking for good clothes is a statement about how you view your personal appearance. Are you basically self-conscious?

The dream may also be telling you not to be too picky. You say you can't find a girl you really like. Are your expectations too high?

i am pretty self-conscious of myself. i don't think it's that my expectations are high, it's just that i don't have someone that makes my heart beat faster when i'm near her.

was the girl that i dreamt about just a tool/object to be manipulated, or is there meaning behind her presence?

There was meaning, sense you say you would like her to like you. Perhaps there is something about her, maybe something your not totally conscious of, that appeals to you. Or she is, like you suggested, the type to be easily manipulated. Does having someone around that you can control appeal to you?

see that's the thing, i previously didn't really notice her, and yet she pops up in my dream, and even more we liked each other in the dream. i really wouldn't know whether i like to control people, but i don't believe i would. i don't believe she's easily manipulated, though. what i meant was that whether she was just an "object" in my dream with no real meaning behind her presence and just used to help tell me something. but i guess that's apart of this interpretation.

thanks for the dream interpretation so far

What does your gut tell you? What feeling do you have about her presence in the dream? If you sense no meaning, than there probably isn't one. If you do have a feeling about it, determine what that is and try to associate that feeling to a time or situation when you experienced that same feeling. This could offer a clue as to her presence in the dream.