while on the way to a hair appoinment, I bumped into an old guy friend who I knew from high school and still communicate with on fb. We start to pick with one another like we're back in high school all the while subtly flirting with one another. We exchange numbers to k.i.t. and next thing I know he's in my bedroom. We laughing, flirting and watching a disney movie (dorky right) and way my fiance ( my actually fiance ) comes into the bedroom and is upset about the fact that he is there in our bed. I make light of it in the dream because I remember times his ex would come over to his place unanounced to "used the phone". so any way my boyfriend is insanely jealous about the fact that he is there but has no proof that I've done anything wrong so he just stands at the foot of the bed upset. finally he leaves and my friend immediately kisses me which to my surprise I like, we begin an illict relationship behind my boyfriend back, but in the dream we never have any form of sex, we just pretty much date one another. In the dream I feel good inside the fling but terrible because if my fiance found out I know that would be the end of what we've build all of these five years. It ends me and my guy friend being at the beach at sunset and I'm telling him that we can't do this any longer and why. all he says is that I'll come around soon or later.

Hi Joi.

I think that since you are getting married and won't be able to date other people again, your unconscious mind is just thinking about what you might be missing.

I think it's normal to think about that before you get married. As long as your relationship with your fiance is OK in waking life, you shouldn't worry about it.