a couple days i had a dream that really stuck with me.which is weird because normally when i have a dream i forget them a couple days later.this one though was so completely random,so my friend suggested i should post it on here.so here it goes

while i am laying in my room my mom and grandma come into my room excited saying i have to meet this girl that is there friends daughter and that i would totally be into her.my reaction is just like what ever and get dragged out to the living room.What i see is this girl with long brown hair,a long dress and glasses.she is sitting there quietly while her mom is talking away but for some reason i cant make out what she is saying.so for some reason i ignore her and leave.then my dream goes to me finding her on myspace and that everything she loves is the same things i love.her favorite band just happens to be my favorite band and that bands name(ulver)jumps out at me in bold lettering.I freak out run out to my room and ask my mom where she lives,her reply is south Chicago.then all of a sudden the dream changes to like a camera panning back and i see what i am assuming is south Chicago because i have never been there and currently reside in new mexico

if you guys can help me out that would be amazing and sorry about my bad grammar.

I think your unconscious mind is just thinking of the type of girl you would want to be with.

Does south Chicago mean anything to you?

Do you know anyone in waking life who resembles the girl in your dreams in any way?

no i have never even been to Chicago and i live in new mexico.i also don't know any girl that fits this description.

So, there's your mother, grandmother, and this girl. The dream characters are all female. Do you feel that your mother, or any other female in your life, is controlling or trying to control what you do with your life, who you see, and who you hang out with? Is this female authority figure trying to get you to go out and meet people?

no not at all.they dont really have that much influence on what goes on in my life.

Why do you think you ignore the girl at first?

i am assuming because she didnt look that interesting

Maybe that's partly a message not to make quick judgements.

thats what my friend was saying.that i dont give girls enough chances.She thinks that my dream was telling me that i need to start doing it

Your friend sounds intelligent.