Was there actual water in the floods? Where the streets flooded? Water usually represents emotions; when we cry water comes out of our eyes, and flooding suggests a feeling of overwhelming emotions, plus you appear to be lost in your dream/emotions too... perhaps you are not used to having these emotions/feelings, or you are worried that they will carry you away, like flood waters or riots, and you'll be out of control? One thing to bear in mind is that floods are always temporary, they always go away; meaning your worries may rise for a while but they will subside too, even though you were lost in the streets you still made it back home, the home represents yourself by the way - you might not know how you made it back home, back to yourself, but your unconscious is telling you that you will somehow, no matter what happens, and everything will be normal - things only seem out of control sometimes but have a way of righting themselves, returning to equilibrium. Now, does any of that make any sense?

Wow good questions! Yes the streets were flooded in the sense that the water was ankle high almost everywhere! I noticed it (interestingly enough) only when I was around the men I didnt notice any water when I was around my cousin. Also interesting was that when I was with the men in the streets walking around..it was broad daylight with ankle high water...the streets were really bad..it was almost like poverty-striken

When I ran into my cousin..it was like in some alley and it was dark but no water..then when I went home it was also dark with no water...not sure what the light & dark thing is about though

And yes that is right..my feelings for EJ are not something I'm use to.
Ok I've known him for a very long time now but I always worry that the minute that I let my feelings completely go..it'll be like some tidal wave that I cant escape from it scares me very much

It does make sense & I knew there was something there when I dreamt of his hometown & being lost there

I guess I needed to make sure

Hi again, Babydreamer.

I think the car accident situation has to do with feeling out of control. Your frustration with EJ's behavior also seems to indicate to me something about feeling unable to control your feelings toward/relationship with him.

Hope that helped a bit

Can I ask do you have similar feelings/anxieties about EJ in your waking life or are they just confined to your dreams? Also the subconscious mind is very childlike and will often assume that bad experiences will be repeated until proved otherwise - so you can either be a victim of your subconscious fears or face up to them and see what happens, dreams can help sometimes but they can also mess us around a bit too; they work a bit like a computer program, expecting the same results all the time until new data (experience) is added, so sometimes you have to take charge and proactively add the data yourself by going ahead and doing some of the things your dreams are telling you to worry about, unless of course you really know you shouldn't be doing stuff in waking life (like beating people up or something) and your dreams are telling you to stop – but that’s something different entirely.

Water nearly always represents your soul, your emotions in dreams; if the water in your dreams is the way it is in your dreams. i.e. flooding, causing chaos etc then it's pretty fair to assume that your emotions are this way too - bearing in mind how important water is to everyone; we are born from water in the womb, we need water to live, we are made from mostly water, our subconscious uses images to get us to see its messages, it chooses the images according to how important it believes we think they are: so water imagery is very important, from our subconscious’ point of view, and our conscious’ one too. I don't want to say much more than that here, and I'm dead set against people who give too much personal advice to people they don't really know on message boards, advice that could be wrong and may upset their lives - all I can say is, if your subconscious thinks there is a problem, a reason to be anxious, and you yourself in waking life believe you might be suppressing anxieties then it's probably very real. I would seriously consider speaking to someone face-to-face, if you haven't already, like a counsellor who doesn't know you or EJ who can listen to everything you have to say. Or maybe I’m reading too much into it and it’s just the dreams you’re bothered about? Whatever the case, if the same/similar dreams keep coming back again and again, they’ll keep on doing so until something is resolved.

Its ok Malj

You're not saying anything that I havent considered already
My anxieties go deeper than just dreams & I have gone back & forth with a therapist over this

But at the end of the day, the therapist cant go home with you, they cant sit there while you make phonecalls & tell you to move past your fears

Its just you & the demons

Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose but its something that no one can really help you with, they can help you understand the source & maybe how to slowly move past it but again, its still one-on-one once you get home

I was just curious about the water thing because it does scare me now

Its not a paralyzing fear but whenever I'm watching a show & it has some type of dark ocean scene, I tend to get a little more excited than I should, especially for someone sitting at home who has no plans on being near the ocean any time soon