i just want to know why until now am still dreaming on my ex-gf..weve been lovers for 7 yrs,when she decided to work abroad,she is not aware that she is pregnant..we do have a steady communication not until after 4 mos,she never replied to my text messages and never called men anymore..things change from there on,she went back here in our native land,just to give birth,and i never had an idea that she do have another man abroad..and thats where the conflict started..i just ant believe she did that to me,we love each other so much,she loves me so much,and i knew it..and so we end up our journey..now i am married w/another girl,and its almost 2 years since we broke up,we both have our own lives now but why am still dreaming of her?

Something could be going on in your life now that reminds you of something about your ex-girlfriend.

It's possible that your unconscious is trying to remind you of things that happened in your relationship with your ex-gf, so you don't make the same mistakes in your current relationship.

You could also unconsciously be worried that your wife will cheat on you the way your ex-gf did.

my life right now is different from what i used to,my lifestyle and my job,there is nothing that is going w/me that will let me remind of my ex-gf..i really want to move on,but she is always on my dreams,and you know what i feel? i feel that we are still connected w/each other,i really cant explain it...i have to admit,am not really over her,especially that we have a baby girl..we dont have that proper closure that they are saying..but one thing is for sure,we really love each other so much when we are together,and i miss that,i miss her....my wife doesnt know how i truly feel,i love my wife,but it is just so different...

could be you actually loved her and at least a small piece of you wants her back, I had dreams about the one girl i Truly loved for 9 years. Glad they finally moved on. Something to think about, could be wrong.

sorry i didnt read this part so i guess i was right, its only normal i guess.

Well, this explains why you keep dreaming about your ex-gf.

Since your life now is totally different from what it was like when you were with her, are you sure that you still love her or just a memory of all the good things (but not the bad) about your relationship?