I had a dream the night before last, only it wasn't a dream. It was so vivid and stuck with me through out the day yesterday. I'm convinced it contained foreshadowing of what is to come.

I woke up in the middle of the night early Friday morning and was convinced there was something I had to go do, and for some reason my cousins were on my mind. My cousins that are in my parents custody. There was this sense of urgency that I couldn't shake. I got dressed and started to walk out my front door and then realized that I wasn't sure what it was I was supposed to be doing. So I laid back down and tried to remember what my dream was, hoping that it would help me remember my task. I was extremely stressed trying to figure this out and struggled to fall back asleep. I don't know how long I tossed and turned by I suddenly felt a strange sense of peace and was able to drift off to sleep.

I dreamt I was sitting on a cream couch that was dingy talking to a man. This man was sitting on a clean white couch perpendicular to the couch I was sitting. The man had dirt all over him. It took me a minute to realize that this man was my uncle. The same uncle that passed away in July. It was as if my uncle had never died in the dream, but something was off. He wasn't quite physically there. He had this intense worry for his kids. He couldn't figure out what to do with them and where they were supposed to live. There was a feeling that my aunt (his wife) had passed on. I suggested that he took them to his house and they could live there. He was concerned that he couldn't do that because his sister had to stay at his mom's house. He acted as though the house wasn't his. It was as if he couldn't go anywhere with out his sister. She had to be there for him to do anything.

I woke up and spent the rest of the day trying to analyze this dream. I anxiously went through my day and couldn't stop thinking about this dream. Later that night I received a friend request on facebook. It came from a complete stranger. I went to his profile and all I could see was his info. It listed his current employer and part of the description included is this..

"I also help families prepare their Last Wills and Testaments, specifically naming their chosen guardians for their children (the single most important reason to have a will if you've got kids), along with several other vital family documents for both spouses, all for only $195I also help families prepare their Last Wills and Testaments, specifically naming their chosen guardians for their children (the single most important reason to have a will if you've got kids), along with several other vital family documents for both spouses, all for only $195"

The strange thing is we happened to have one friend in common. You guessed it.. my aunt. I decided not to add him as a friend, but sent him a message asking how he knows me. He hasn't responded yet, and I don't think he will. I have confirmed with my grandma that it is my aunt's attorney. I find it hard to believe that it's coincidental that I just happened to received his friend request the day after I had a dream about my uncle who has passed on and his concern for the kids. I'm trying really hard to not read into this too much. Why does he want to be my friend? What information does he feel like he can gather from my profile? Is he expecting to find things on my page that he can use in court?

What do you guys think this means? I could use all the help I can get.

Before you had the dream, when was the last time you spoke to your aunt or had any contact with her (for example, on Facebook?)

Why would your uncle be worried about his children if they are in your parents' custody? They already have someone taking care of them.

Why aren't they in the custody of your aunt?

Can you think of any reason why your aunt's attorney would have sent you a friend request on just that particular day?

I wonder if there is something going on that would have caused both you and your aunt to have concerns about their children's care at the same time.

Reading this gave me goosebumps .... I'm wondering what Marcia asked.

I'll post a reply as soon as I can get to a computer. It's too long to type on my phone.