in this dream i was with with my mother and my aunt. we were getting ready for a party and we were in a hurry. as soon as we left we went to go pick up my nephew and his grandmother. when we finally arrived for the party we saw people that we had problems with(moms x husbands family)as in the government was involved to keep us away from them. then my aunt began to ask me why are we here. we are suppose to stay away from them. we hate them. and it seemed that she was the only one that remembered what happened like if it had happened in her head and not in the whole dream. the questions she asked me were very hard to answer for some strange reason. the only answers i had for her were for her to drop the subject to leave it alone and that she had lost it that both of these families had never been separated. and the strange parr of it all is that all the faces were blurry to me they had no facial structure what so ever.

what does this mean...
i am open to any interpretations...

I'm a little confused. Did your family and your mother's ex-husband's family have problems in waking life? If so, how long ago was this? Are you still having problems with them?

Sorry, but I'm confused about how much of your dream has to do with things going on in your waking life.

yes my mother and i had problems with my mother x husbands family and him....
the problem had been going on for a while but my mother and i have just delt with that problem this year which is when we brought the government into it...

although i no longer have any contact with that family my mother still does...

and yes the problems were in waking life.

I think your aunt in your dream is the part of yourself that remembers everything and wants to go over it all and it is in conflict with the part of yourself that just wants to move on and forget everyting and pretend it never happened.

Part of you (your aunt in the dream) probably wants to go over it all and remember everything in detail because you want to make sure you don't make the same mistakes in life again.

But another part of you just wants to forget about it because it is painful and you want to just block that out and go on with your life.

It's just your unconscious looking at your conflicting thoughts about the situation.

oh ok that makes sense ...
thank u...