Hello everyone,

I had this dream last night that was very weird and has me a bit confused and curious because i remember the dream, major parts of it... I had a dream that i was dating this guy, Ian (i dont know any Ian's and havent met any soo far), and we both lived together, shared a bed etc. For some reason, in the dream, we decided to break up. He dates other girls i see other guys but we continue to live in the same apartment and share the same bed. I hit a blank spot in the dream where i cant remember but then it pick up again with me on my way back from somewhere and im crying in the hallway of this apartment building. Ian, this tall skinny guy, somehow knows im crying, comes up in the hallway to meet me and comfort me.. As hes holding me, i tell him Ian i need to tell you something but please dont let it ruin our relationship or scare you off, he says ok and i tell him i think im falling in love with you.. He looks at me kisses me and continues to hug me. I remember looking into his face but all i can see is his lips.. I cant see anything else.. and those lips do not look familiar... Towards the ending, i felt as though i was half awake. My husband had the news on with the lights on, i could hear the tv and understand what they were saying but yet dreaming at the same time...

what does this mean??? Ive never met a person named Ian who was tall, skinny, and had dark brown hair... Nothing that day or evening happened for me to think of a person like that... or of a situation like that..

i am very confused as to where that dream came from and why... and why i remembered it.. usually i don't remember dreams.

It sounds like Ian in the dream represents somene who makes you feel secure and loved. Even though you break up and date other people you still live together and share a bed.

The dream could be about a need for security and unconditional love.

Could Ian be the name of a character on TV or in a book?