dreamnt me and 2 of my BEST childhood friends and a total stranger (girl) were stuck on out of ctrl train - the train had no engine or conductor - it was a self moving mile long row of flatbed cars and I was in the 1st one trying to ctrl it with my feet and any way at all.

note; my 2 pals - we have not been close.
J - has not spoken to him more than 1-2 times in past several yrs after not going to is wedding cuz i was pissed he did not have me in his wedding party - more his wifes decision.

G - were always more close- our parents know each other from their childhoods. Had many recent relations until 2 months or so back due to his drug addiction and lack of reliability, he also stole from me.

mystery asian girl - no idea who, but i do not fancy asian's and more specif. asian gals.

The train travelled for some time, ..time?? ... i will say for a 2 hours and we finally stopped at a station after I yelled fro help.

WEird.

Interesting that both friends are people who you used to be best friends with but have problems with now. Since you are the one tring to control the train, maybe you feel like you are the one who always has to be in control - J lets his wife makes the decisions, doesn't stand up for himself; G has a drug addiction, is unreliable.

Are you in a situation in your life now where you feel like you are taking on a lot of responsiblility?

Was there anything about the Asian girl's appearance or behavior that seemed significant? Do Asia or Asians mean anything to you?

I appreciate your reply!!

Yes I have always felt to be in control when we were close.

J - your comments are precise, 100%.
G - same..

Yes, I am taking on more and more responsibility. I am not prejudice or racist, I look at the individual on a 1 on 1 basis and judge each persons actions. Honestly, Asians make me somewhat nervous and I don't particularly
associate wit them. Just an instinct.

Then maybe the Asian girl represented a new, unfamiliar situation.

Yes I see how that makes sense. Or perhaps she rep's something or someone who has derailed our past relationships and friendships - something / someone who I am not comfortable with.

Strange, cuz at the very end of the dream Jay approached me bearing gifts - a few loafs of bread and squeezable cheese -whiz.
(I have been eating less carbohydrates recently + was craving this prticular cheeze just days b4 the dream)

wish you were there today ... I was on a subway car heading home and out of nowhere I look to my right and there are 3 young kids sitting together (younger than me , j and G were in the dream) and a asian girl 2 seats ahead of us.

We were the only ones at the front of the subway car. nothing happened nor was said, no one levitated or started to glow but the moment brought up memories and the dream.

What an arrangement !!!... synchronicity at my finest.
good news, J replied to my email and we are playing phone tag, hopefully we see each other soon. He always has a funny take on this stuff.

Frugally Yours,

What the F!@#$#@!K does this mean at the end of an email, I usually conclude an email with best / Warm Regards ... but this really pissed me off.

he never called and followed up. I sent him a nasty email outlining my feelings and he was not sure why i was mad.

note; he has always done this and growing up he commonly never showed up to meetings, engagements, and planned stuff we had talked about in great details.

I give up and will not longer associate with him till he wakes up.

My time is not frugal., its actually very valuable. Shame.

It seems like you are unhappy with the email you got. I think maybe some friendships are best left ended.

Ended officially. Cell # and et al DELETED.

He will call when he needs a favor.

Reciprocity is dead.