ok i had a dream about an ex last night. i am happily married to my husband. but i was with this ex for 4yrs. we were highschool sweethearts and dated 2years after highschool but anyway. i had a dream that he had a baby with another girl which he did back in december but hes no longer with the baby mama hes with another girl. but he has recently got in trouble with the law and goten arrested for a dwi,ressisting arrest, and drving on the wrong side of a dual lane highway.this is why he broke up i couldnt handle the achol abuse any longer...so when he got arrested his family reached out to me to see if i would talk to him about what happend bcuz they felt i was the one person he new it would dissapoint and he didnt want that so i did and in the dream i went to his house and it was after he ad gotten arrested and he got worse and i looked at him and his face looked like the face of a severly burned person and i asked what happend and he told me that he drowned and i just broke down crying and fell to the floor. i have no clue what this means ...if it means hes in trouble again and i need to check on him but then again is he really my responsibility anymore he has a gf and i have my own husband and daughter.

I think that part of you is feeling guilty for breaking up with him, even though you know that it was the right thing for you to do and that you do not deserve to be in a relationship with someone who abuses alcohol.

There will probably always be a little part of you that feels guilty.

Is there anything going on in your life now that could be bringing up thoughts about your past with him or maybe just making you feel bad about yourself?