Dreamt of two girls, neither being my girlfriend?

samalex1014 · #1 (**permalink**) 05-26-2011, 03:00 AM

Ok, so I had a weird dream. I was in a run down train station motel room (I think) and I walk out into the terminal (I think) and then my one friend is there. Something may have happened, since I put my arm around her as we walked to comfort her. She was uncomfortable and pulled away, but we kept talking. (She didn't pull away because of me, I think I figured out the meaning of that one. In real life, she told me she was almost raped once, and it's messed with her head. So she doesn't date.) Anyway, after that, I walk away to call my other friend, (an ex, then was my best friend, now thinks I'm gonna tell her secrets to my girlfriend so I don't really know what's goin on with her and she's replacing me with guys that just want to us her and don't care at all.) Anyway, I call her, and there's this music, like something from a porno. I get mad (she knows I dislike some of the guys and still rubs it in, been cause for some fights) so I yell at her "What the hell is that? It sounds like a 70's porno!!" At that point I'm thinking she's having sex with one of the aforementioned guys, and that thought's been...distressing to me. But she laughs and says "It's not my fault, it's Brandyn and Tory." (Brandyn being one of the guys I HATE.) That's as much as I remember. But basically, I dreamt about those two girls, and wanted both of them, but not my girlfriend. Could this mean something? I have been feeling kind of...I dunno, just not all in it. Could this be the reason?

Marcia · #2 (**permalink**) 05-27-2011, 08:57 AM

Well, the behavior of the first girl, pulling away from you, would be normal for her in waking life, because she was raped.

Your putting your arm around with her could have to do with you being concerned about her in waking life. That would be normal. Maybe you have unconsciously been thinking about what has happened to her in her past and you feel bad for her because you are her friend.

What you are saying about your ex makes you think you still have feelings for her and you are jealous of the guys she is with. It sounds like your dream is reflecting your feeling.

I don't know what you mean when you say you have been feeling "just not all in it", but it sounds like in the dream you are just working out your feelings about these two girls.

samalex1014 · #3 (**permalink**) 05-28-2011, 11:50 PM

What I mean is I haven't been feeling right in my relationship with my girlfriend. I wasn't sure if this dream was a way of me showing myself there are two other girls I'd rather be with.

Marcia · #4 (**permalink**) 05-30-2011, 08:19 AM

That is probably it.

Although the dream may not be telling you that you want to be with either of those two particular girls, just that you would be happier with someone else.