Hello fellow dreamers,

Ill try and recall my dream as best as i can. lets begin...

I remember being in a lonely car park, very loosely spotted with cars. Im there because im hoping to find a friends car (who could be my potential girlfriend in real life?)...

i stumble around and find what i believe to be her car, vandalised with white paint, it looks like somebodys got a roller out and tried to paint the whole vehicle.

i think the car disappears from the scene? and im left looking at a brick wall with a message that i believe to be written by her but has been painted over with a long white streak of paint, i cant read the message.

the whole scene is a bit apprehensive, the feeling you get when you've lost something or someone.

i walk away wearing a white t-shirt tucked into my waist, as i walk along the road i pull out the tucked in t-shirt, letting it hang freely... i feel a touch of relief and slowly wake up.
Ive researched lightly the main aspects of this dream so i know the basics of the symbols. Id love to hear your responses, ill share some details of what happened the day before to trigger this dream, after ive heard some replies.

thanks for having me, harry.

The idea of her car being vandalized by paint makes me think of something about her being "ruined" before she had the opportunity to become your girlfriend.

A corny explanation would be that white represents purity and the dream has to do with virginity.

Then again, it could have to do with having "impure thoughts" - not necessarily sexual, but having beliefs/values that someone might consider to be unethical/immoral.

Or maybe just different ideas about where your life should be headed (a car can signify the "journey" through life).

Not being able to read the message could mean not being able to understand something in waking life, or have to do with a lack of communication between you and someone else (maybe her).

The part about untucking your t-shirt and feeling more comfortable could be a message to take things easy and just let things happen as they do.

thank you marcia, you have made some points that definately ring true that i havent thought about.

she had her heart ripped out by a long time boy friend who cheated, which led her down a path of semi self destruction... drinking too much, being promiscuous, etc. There definately a sexual trama with her.

we argued the night before the dream which nearly ended the relationship, shes taking medication which i found out was dangerous but had been presented as being safe... she couldnt see that she was being lied to.

maybe that was the lack of communication, she had painted over her thoughts with white paint, maybe out of fear?

i definately understood the last bit, i think i need to relax more in general and with the situation.

thanks again for your help

sorry for not posting this in the relationship thread