Two years ago I broke up with my ex. Almost a year later I started having dreams with him in them so I figured that was a sign to talk to him. We started talking and have become friends. I don't have those feelings anymore for him but I have been having dreams about him a lot the past few months. I don't know why. Some are just him there and not the main focus but like last night's dream I was emotional. I don't remember in detail what happened but at the end we were in a car and he was telling me he loved me. I cried and told him it's not the same. I love him too but not like I once did. Why am I dreaming of him? Please someone help me understand this!

Even though you consciously don't love him the same way, and you know it is a bad idea to get back together with him, unconsciously you probably still have some of the same feelings. Your dreams are where your conflicting feelings are revealed.

Has something been happening in your life in the past few months, since you started the dreams, that could be making you feel lonely and maybe want something more from a relationship, not necessarily with him. Are you in a relationship now? If so, could there be anything going on in that relationship that you aren't satisified with or that reminds you of your ex?

I am kinda feeling like I would like to get into a relationship again. It's been 2 years to the day actually. I guess cause he was the last guy I called my boyfriend and everyone else since him I said we were just dating and not serious. It's just annoying that he keeps popping in my dreams on and off for about a year. Thank you

I didn't realize it was two years to the day. The anniversary definitely could have triggered something in your unconscious.