My husband was explaining a dream he had last night and I figured I can probably can get a bit of clarification in here...

Well he claims we were at our wedding reception and I was no where to be found, he said that a group of our guest and him went up in the elevator to the 11th floor that he got off and everyone else stayed in the elevator and went up... he said he looked around and that he found himself alone in our reception by himself without any of our guest and me. He told me got really upset and mad at the fact he was alone in our wedding day...and that was his dream?

I now wonder what this may mean, does he feel alone, does the 11th floor mean anything, the fact I wasnt there mean anything? Can anyone help me, understand this dream that is driving me crazy! Thank you in advance, lady.

But not your husband? *smile*

It would be interesting first to know how many years it has been since your wedding.

For example, if you were coming up on the 7th anniversary, which has always been ascribed as "the 7 year itch", or where couples are feeling complacent, comfortable, no real "excitement" going on, his subconscious could be playing with the idea of what it would be like to escape from his vows and look outside the marriage.

OR

he could have some knowledge of a friend who is going through a divorce, and is having some empathy for this friend who will now be alone, without a wife.

These are what I "sense". It would of course be very interesting to know what outside motivations are upon him right now, as well. Do you have children? Is he a very responsible parent, and help out? Or are there financial matters right now that have put some mental pressure on him, and he is seeking an escape?

Most of all, was HE upset by this dream AFTER he woke up?

Does he always talk to you about his dreams, or was it because this one upset him? It's good that he's told you about it anyway, means that he's very open about his feelings. The number 11 will most likely only be significant to him, so he'll have to figure out if it means anything, which it probably does. Maybe he's unconsciously worried about being left alone, or being alone like he was before he met you? Maybe that will help?

An 11 is two 1s put together

Hello, thank you for responding, well let me first start by saying that we just got married on march of this year and yes we are going through a financial rut...we just bought a home that needed lots of renovation which is killing us softly...

Also, so you know a little of background, in my bachelorette party I kissed a guy and after that we spoke about that... Ever since that with every right that he has, he has lost trust in me, he says he didnt but i know better than that... I owened up to my mistake,it was totaly my fault and I am ashamed of it, it was my first time doing something like that, I am a good girl but what can i say I am human, I guess I thougththe worse was happening in his party... Anyhow, i think at times he may feel like I will leave him for another, I mean I have never cheated on him or anything but that incident of me kissing this guy... so I think that my husband dream is about me kissing the guy, perhaps me leaving him (which will never happen) and our financial crisis.... sorry if this is so long but I needed some clarification, I decided to leave this out before so i can see you guys perspective.

Thank You,
Lady

It does seem that the dream could be showing that he feels insecure about your relationship.