Rick,
If you were to talk to your grandmother, what do you believe you would want to tell her? Maybe if you just thought those concerns in a quiet conversation to her, doesn't even have to be verbal, and then allow yourself the satisfaction that she heard you, and then remain open to the fact that she DID hear you, she may come back to you in your dreams.
And if she doesn't, it may be because you said just the right thing.
I often find myself asking my parents and grandparents questions. When I do, I am often visited by very lucid dreams.
I wish you the best.
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