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i dreamt last night that my ex husband was smiling happy(very different for him) and i was quiet and he stood near me and said to me that i cannot interfere (do any damage) because he said i already knew he was in a relationship that was so close (as in a tight circle) that noone could harm that closeness,he said when you feel this way,nothing can destroy that ,and that i should know how that feel(like i had been there before with others)
he wanted me to know and understand this

i just stood there quiet listening ,i was silent

What does this mean? this dream for some reason is bothering me so
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Old 12-16-2005, 07:36 PM
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Have you had contact with your ex recently? Did he say anything about a new relationship? If so, how did you feel about that?

Or it might have to do with lack of communication. You mention a tight circle that cannot be broken. Do you feel left out of family or work gatherings?
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Old 12-16-2005, 08:02 PM
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Have you had contact with your ex recently? Did he say anything about a new relationship? If so, how did you feel about that?

Or it might have to do with lack of communication. You mention a tight circle that cannot be broken. Do you feel left out of family or work gatherings?



I have not seen my ex since June after been divorced since 1999,i move
where he lived for my child(who is with me)to be closer to his father.I left after a few weeks.He will not talk to me at all.
yes there is a lack of communication,yes i feel left out
and i do not know
at all about his personal life

in the last years the dreams i have had do come to be in some way shape or form
this one really upset me,and i dont kno why???

he has been speaking to his child alot more but has not seen him yet since we left





before i moved there i had a dream where he gave me an utimatium that either i go there or he will find another family,and i went but i left






This dream that i posted really bothers me alot and i am not sure why,and who he is talking about if anyone all?i thought maybe my child or someone new in his life i have no idea
but i know in the dream he was so not like himself towards me,he was so happy,i was so quiet.
wanted me to understand that nothing could interfere that i have been there before myself and should understand how tight that circle can be
he told me i already new of this relationship
he said you already know i am in this relationship

i have no idea except it is bothering terribly
if you have any ideas please let me know and thank you for answering me
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You mention that your childs father has had contact but not seen him yet.

The only reason that I can figure that the dream upset you so could be because you fear that your ex and your son could form a relationship that does not include you. Either you fear being left out or that your son will be taken away from you. He won't be home all the time anymore.

Hope this is helpful.
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thank you for helpong me om my dream

yesterday he asked his child too see him next weekend my son was crying and said he disnt want him to go
i told him to go

i am afraid of my ex

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If you are afraid of your ex, does that mean that you are afraid to have your son alone with your ex? This is something that should be taken care of by the courts.
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My son doesnt want to go,but i told him to go since he hasnt seen him in a long time,i dont know if this is what my dream meant or something different???


in my dream i had no feelings

in real life he is very diffult to communicate with and dominating....
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The dream bothering you reflects the fact that you are uncomfortable with your son seeing your ex.

You should probably see a counselor about this.
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hi

i am not uncomfortable about my son seeing his father,i want them to have a great relationship

the father doesnt have time for the son

my dream i am not so sure signifies that this is his son he is speaking of have not seen him want to be with his son that way yet,actually contrary

in all of my dreams where people talk i am quiet

what this dream means i guess i will find out,maybe it is the opposite???

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Quote:
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the father doesnt have time for the son
But earlier, you said
"yesterday he asked his child too see him next weekend".
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