LOL, my husband said that it reminded him of The Others too.
I'm at a complete loss as to who the woman could represent, there are really no women like that in my life. There may be parts of myself that I am changing and leaving behind, and we will be changing our living situation very soon... in short, I am going through a lot of changes with myself, and things and situations are also changing in my reality (all for the better). I felt very connected to the woman in the dream, very eerie when I found out they were dead, and a little afraid of the man of the house finding out about us. I cannot shake this dream!